It has been exactly 1 year, 5 months, 3 days of my existence in Pune and I had never come across anything like this! While my opinion is going to raise quite a few heckles and objections, what the heck! India’s a free country and I’m going to express my view.So, as I was saying, Pune and ‘courtesy’ do not go hand in hand. Nobody cares for your time here. Pune and Mumbai have been called sister cities, but they are as different as chalk and cheese. Though I agree I might be a bit biased about Mumbai considering I have been born and brought up there, I have to make this point: Mumbai might be mercilessly materialistic, but somewhere within that exterior, it has a heart. It’s a survivor and a city that never sleeps. More than all this: time is money here. On the other hand, Pune seems to be welcoming, but is not. It’s materialistic too, but has no heart. But I’m adjusting to this ‘newness’ and putting down roots here because I’m thankful to this city for giving me a husband and a whole new family, a good job and cool colleagues, and of course, my cherished house.
Coming back to today, I was pleasantly surprised to experience courtesy from the most unexpected quarter. Here, I have to travel to work, like all others, by a PMPML bus (like the BEST in Mumbai). But unlike the BEST buses that have 3-4 seats reserved for women, these buses have an entire row! But that’s only on paper, or shall we say wood? I have never ever seen men vacating these seats for women in PMPML buses on their own. However, today, I boarded the PMC-bound bus hoping to get a seat, but had to keep standing. A man occupying a ladies’ seat, after some deliberation with his friend who was occupying the window seat, got up and vacated his seat for me. I muttered a thank you and sat down. After alighting from the bus, I wanted to share this experience with everybody, so here it is.
This courtesy has, dare I say, brought me a few more inches closer to the city which I married into.
(pic courtesy: theladiesseat.blogspot.com)


After venturing into baking two weeks ago, thanks to my new Samsung microwave-convection oven, I was itching to do something new. I had read up on loads of microwave recipes and set out to prepare a chocolate-banana brownie. The recipe was actually for chocolate-banana muffins, but I made some modifications of my own and baked a brownie instead.
